Grief experienced different ways the death of someone years ago people say get over it and move on. But you can be sitting in cafe and its hits like a ton a bricks and your crying in coffee. Or a person can just experience in from premonition of some drastic comes your way or it becomes anxiety. Even a bad snow storm brings back memories. Blizzard of 1978 portsmouth, RI here. Though i was young made out fine some people died from this storm.